Ten Things I Hate About Me (Review)

August 12, 2010

Book cover for "Ten Things I Hate About Me" by Randa Abdel-Fattah.Title: Ten Things I Hate About Me

Author: Randa Abel-Fattah

Publication Year: 2010

Pages: 297

Genre: Fiction, Young Adult

Source: Borrowed from the library at my school

From the cover:

Jamie just wants to fit in. She doesn’t want to be seen as a stereotypical Muslim girl, so she does everything possible to hide that part of herself. Even if it means pushing her friends away because she’s afraid to let them know her dad forbids her to hang out with boys or that she plays the darabuka drums in an Arabic band.

But when the cutest boy in school asks her out and her friends start to wonder about Jamie’s life outside of school, suddenly her secrets are threatened. Can Jamie figure out how to be both Jamie and Jamilah before she loses it all?

The main character of this book, Jamilah aka Jamie, is a Lebanese-Australian Muslim girl who lives with her father, older sister, and older brother (her mother died when she was very young). The jist of Ten Things I Hate About Me is that Jamilah doesn’t want the people at school to find out that she’s a “wog” – a discriminatory term for an immigrant – even though she was born in Australia. She doesn’t want them to find out anything about her, particularly not her background or about how strict her father is; even with her female friends, she never invites anyone over, and always makes last-minute excuses to bail out on plans so that she won’t have to admit that she isn’t allowed to go out after dark. Jamilah does this because she doesn’t want to be seen as a “stereotypical Muslim girl” who has a taxi-driver father and a super-strict curfew, even though these things are true. Aside from this, she also has a crush on the most popular boy in her class, and he is seriously racist against anyone who is Muslim or from the Middle East.

Jamie explains that this fear of being “found out” comes out of the way that she was treated when she was younger, when she would bring “ethnic” food to school for potlucks, and the other children, teachers, and parents would ridicule her:

They had their Vegemite and cheese sandwiches and chocolate wafers and white bread. I had kebabs and kofta and tabouli and pastries. Some of the other mothers laughed. I could smell their condescension. It smacked my nose like milk gone sour.

When there’s so much fear and misunderstanding and ridicule, why would anybody want to stand out? As well-meaning as Miss Sajda’s efforts may be, I’m not interested in being a hybrid identity. I’ve learned that the safest thing is to leave the kebabs at home and stick to white bread and Vegemite.

Miss Sajda is Jamilah’s teacher at Arabic school, as well as the sort of advisor for the band that she plays in. No matter what her older sister or Miss Sajda tells her, Jamilah is insistent that she never wants anyone to find out about her background. She fights with her father constantly, about curfew, friends, boys, a part-time job, clothes, and going to the prom, to name a few things. In the meantime, Jamie’s older brother smokes, drinks, and has refused to go to college, and her older sister is a hijab-wearing activist who marches in rallies and protests. Jamie feels, for most of the novel, that she is being treated unfairly, particularly in comparison to her brother, and her father agrees – while also saying that this is on purpose, because girl’s reputations are harder to keep unsullied than those of boys’.

I could really sympathize with Jamie’s character for most of this book, because I could see in her the types of things that I have heard of many Muslim and/or immigrant teenagers experiencing from peer groups. On the other hand, though, Ten Things I Hate About Me seemed rather cliched at times, really leaning on the idea of the hard-done-by younger daughter and the single, trying-so-hard father.

If you can get past that, though, this book really deals with a lot of important, interesting, and timely issues – and was a quick and entertaining read.

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This book is a part of the Ramadan Reading event happening here this month.

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6 Comments

  • Amy August 13, 2010 at 9:35 am

    Sounds like a fun book, though too bad it is really clichéd. I am guessing she must have moved schools if no one remembers her bringing the “ethnic” food to the pot luck?

    • Carina August 13, 2010 at 10:41 am

      It seemed as though, somehow, no one knew between then and high school? I wasn’t really sure about that somehow, it wasn’t made very clear.

  • zibilee August 13, 2010 at 3:20 pm

    This book sounds very interesting and also very realistic. I think I might enjoy it and even though parts of it did feel a little predictable, overall the story sounds very enticing to a reader like me. Thanks for the very insightful review. I will have to keep this book on my radar!

    • Carina August 13, 2010 at 3:45 pm

      Definitely! I’ve enjoyed everything I’ve read by this author so far. 🙂

  • Darlyn August 21, 2010 at 10:15 am

    Wow..This is kind of fun even though the character is quite pity to face all those things and that can be hard for a teenager. I think I should find this.

    • Carina August 21, 2010 at 8:09 pm

      I agree – read this book! It’s great.

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